We may not like to think about it, but at any moment we could face a serious medical crisis. One that could leave us unable to communicate with our loved ones or health care providers. Yet many of us haven’t prepared for this possibility. We haven’t formally communicated to our loved ones or our doctors the kind of treatment we’d want if we were too ill to make those decisions for ourselves. That means others will have to make these decisions for us without knowing for sure what we really want.
This forces doctors to make health care decisions without the benefit of that guidance. And if your loved ones don’t know your wishes, they may have to make difficult decisions about your care. Formally communicating your wishes – known as advance care planning – takes care of those you love, as well as yourself. It involves setting up an advance directive – a legal document that describes your wishes for end-of-life care.
Here are the four key steps for creating an advance directive:
We encourage you to start taking steps now to communicate your wishes. To get started, we suggest you check out Caring Conversations: Making your healthcare wishes known, a publication created by the Center for Practical Bioethics. It guides you through the process of creating an advance directive so your loved ones and doctors are aware of your wishes for end-of-life care. The booklet includes:
While the kit includes forms, we suggest that you download state-specific versions of these forms to be sure they meet all of your state’s requirements. In Massachusetts, this form is called a health care proxy form. It lets you name someone to make decisions about your medical care if you can no longer speak for yourself.
Medical Orders for Life-Sustaining Treatment (MOLST) – MOLST is a Massachusetts program designed to improve the quality of care patients receive at the end of life. Doctors and patients can use the MOLST medical orders form to document patient preferences about the types of life-sustaining medical treatments the patient would like to avoid or receive. These medical orders can be honored by health professionals across care settings – such as at home, or in a hospital or nursing home.
The MOLST medical orders form can be used to supplement a personal wishes statement. The difference is that the MOLST form is authorized by law in Massachusetts, while the personal wishes statement is not. The Massachusetts MOLST form may be honored in some states outside of Massachusetts but not others. Other states also have their own MOLST forms, such as New York.